DOI: 10.1111/fare.70233 ISSN: 0197-6664

Intergenerational association in attitudes toward displaying affection in a romantic relationship

Dagna Kocur, Marcin Moroń, Magdalena Sitko‐Dominik, Sandesh Dhakal, Nandita Sharma

Abstract

Objective

This study examined intergenerational association in attitudes toward displaying affection (private and public) in romantic relationships between adult children and their parents. We also tested whether these associations are explained by shared levels of trait emotional intelligence (EI).

Background

Although previous research has shown familial patterns in emotional expressivity and intelligence, little is known about the transmission of specific attitudes toward public and private displays of affection. Additionally, no study has examined whether trait EI mediates this association.

Method

Eighty‐three triads of adult children (54 women and 29 men; age range: 18–49; M  = 23.82, SD  = 4.76) and their parents (83 mothers and 83 fathers) participated in the study, which was conducted in Poland. The associations between the parents' and the adult child's attitudes toward displaying affection in romantic relationships, and EI, were examined using extended network analysis.

Results

Adult children's attitudes were positively associated with their fathers' attitudes, especially regarding private and public displays of affection. Associations with mothers were weaker and limited to negative behaviors toward public affection. EI was positively associated across family members and partially mediated similarities in attitudes.

Conclusion

Adult children's attitudes toward displays of affection in romantic relationships was only partially similar to the parental attitudes; father's attitudes seemed to be more important. Familial positive association in EI could be the basic process underpinning the positive association in attitudes toward displays of affection between adult children and parents.

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