Experiences in Coloured, Tswana and Jewish Traditions: A South African Afrikaans View

Abstract

The complexity and beauty of cultural differences have always fascinated me. In this narrative, I share my unique cross-cultural experiences, drawing from the coloured, Tswana and Jewish cultures. Although I am not an expert, my interactions and discussions with people from these cultures have profoundly influenced me. Raised in an Afrikaans-speaking family, I attended English schools, which broadened my cultural horizons. My encounter with the coloured culture began with a friendship in an English-speaking school. I admired the unity, resilience and strong family values inherent in the coloured culture. My friend’s dedication to family and faith inspired me, emphasising the importance of sharing success with loved ones. My exposure to the Tswana culture in university introduced me to traditional practices like Lobolo and their rich musical heritage. Lobolo (bride price) intrigued me despite its controversial aspects, as it reflects the groom’s ability to support his future family. Tswana music, integral to their cultural expressions, captivated me with its ability to convey emotions and celebrate milestones. My experiences with the Jewish culture over the past decade have been enlightening. I discovered diversity in Judaism and participated in various Jewish feasts and traditions. The Bat or Bar Barakah, a rite of passage into adulthood, left a lasting impression on me. This tradition underscores the significance of family support and community in personal growth and self-discovery. In summary, exploring different cultures has enriched my understanding of human connections.